Let's Be Real

Matthew 21:23-32

23Jesus entered the temple courts, and, while he was teaching, the chief priests and the elders of the people came to him. “By what authority are you doing these things?” they asked. “And who gave you this authority?”

24 Jesus replied, “I will also ask you one question. If you answer me, I will tell you by what authority I am doing these things. 25 John’s baptism—where did it come from? Was it from heaven, or of human origin?”

They discussed it among themselves and said, “If we say, ‘From heaven,’ he will ask, ‘Then why didn’t you believe him?’ 26 But if we say, ‘Of human origin’—we are afraid of the people, for they all hold that John was a prophet.”

27 So they answered Jesus, “We don’t know.”

Then he said, “Neither will I tell you by what authority I am doing these things.

28 “What do you think? There was a man who had two sons. He went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work today in the vineyard.’

29 “‘I will not,’ he answered, but later he changed his mind and went.

30 “Then the father went to the other son and said the same thing. He answered, ‘I will, sir,’ but he did not go.

31 “Which of the two did what his father wanted?”

“The first,” they answered.

Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you. 32 For John came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him.”

Let’s Be Real

Have you ever heard the concern – or maybe even the skepticism – about the Bible that the book we have in our hands today is a translation of a translation of a copy of a copy of an original that doesn’t exist anymore, and so we can’t be sure that what we’re reading now is what was written 2,000 years ago, i.e. that basically the Bible is the longest running game of Telephone in human history? You know that game, don’t you? I whisper in someone’s ear, “We love muddy puddles,” and then they whisper what they hear into someone else’s ear and so on and so forth until the last person in the line hears, “Olaf poodle puppies.” It’s a silly premise, but it’s a serious question. And the passage that we read a moment ago from Matthew 21 is a great example.

Jesus tells this parable about a father telling his two sons to go and work in the family vineyard. In the text that we read, the first son said, “No,” but then he changed his mind and did go and work in the vineyard; I’m going to call him the “no-yes” son. The second son said, “Yes,” but then he didn’t go; I’m going to call him the “yes-no” son. And when Jesus asked the chief priests which son was better, they picked the first son, i.e. the “no-yes” one.

Where Christians can feel squishy and where critics can feel saucy is understanding that there are actually other versions of this text, and the changes that those versions make seem to drastically change the whole story.

Maybe the most notable variant has the sons in the opposite order – the first son says, “Yes,” but doesn’t go; the second son says, “No,” but does go. And although the chief priests’ line stays exactly the same – “The first” – it completely changes their answer, because now instead of picking the son who eventually did do what his father wanted him to do, now they are picking the son who made a show of being good, but didn’t do anything that a good son should.

So, which one do you think is right? Which version of this passage is correct? Or, to ask you the same question that Jesus asked the chief priests: “Which of the two did what his father wanted”[1] – the son who said he’d work or the one who actually did?

How many of you think that the son who said, “No,” but did go is the one who did what his father wanted? And how many of you think that the son who said, “Yes,” but didn’t do anything is the one who did what his father wanted?

For the most part, we live in what some people would call a guilt-innocence culture – where your greatest virtue – the best thing you could do – is to accomplish something good, and your worst vice – the biggest sin you could commit – is failing to do something good. Whereas the ancient Jews of Jesus’ day lived in what some would call an honour-shame culture – where your greatest virtue is showing respect to someone – even if you don’t do anything worthwhile – and your greatest vice is showing disrespect to someone.  

So – even though it sounds incredibly foreign to us, here and now, 2,000 years later – I could easily see a scenario in which the real-life ancient chief priests could have chosen the son who lied, but didn’t disrespect his father, as the son who did what his father wanted.

It’s a thorny question, but it’s one that – by Jesus’ own design – directly touches your soul.

The question that Jesus asked is brilliant, whether you live in a guilt-innocence culture like ours or an honour-shame culture like his. Jesus’ question is brilliant because it’s a trap. Neither answer is correct. Both sons were wrong. Neither did what his father wanted. Both sinned. But with this question, Jesus holds a mirror up to your soul and reveals to you not only which virtues you value, but also which vices you are more willing to excuse.

For those of you who voted for the son who said, “No,” but did go and work in the vineyard, is it possible that you raised your hand because you see a little bit of yourself in him, because you know that you haven’t always started well, but you try to finish well? Maybe you strayed away from God and the church as a teenager or young adult – maybe you’re struggling with a certain sin right now – but you want to hold out hope that if you can just turn things around and end on the right note, then everything will be OK, i.e. then the sins of your past can stay in your past – or that the struggles of your present can someday be forgotten.

Well, I don’t want to dash all your hopes – because there is hope for everyone – but finishing your story well, doesn’t change how you started. Fixing your life now doesn’t fix what you’ve done in the past. Making good choices in the future, won’t delete your bad choices from the past. God does not sweep sins under the rug or wink at youthful indiscretions. He condemns sin and the sinners who commit them.

For those of you who voted for the son who said, “Yes,” but did not go and work in the vineyard, is it possible that you raised your hands because you see yourself in him? You have always tried to do things right from the very beginning. You wouldn’t dream of stooping so low as to dabble with drugs or lose yourself in alcohol. You make every effort to go to church as often as you possibly can. Your friends and neighbours would consider you a good man or woman. But you know what you do and what you don’t do when the light’s not shining on you. You know your secret sins. You know when you’re just giving lip service to your God and your church family, and you’d like to believe that saying the right thing will make up for you not doing the right thing.  

But this is the whole point of Jesus’ parable: both sons were wrong. And all of us are too. And so it doesn’t matter which version or variant reading is correct. It doesn’t matter how you answer the question. The meaning and purpose of Jesus’ question is the same either way.

Jesus asked this question of the chief priests knowing that whichever son they chose, their answer would be wrong, but not nearly as wrong as their own reality. Because the chief priests weren’t really like either of the sons. They were neither the “yes-no” nor the “no-yes” son. They were “no-no” sons. They disrespected God by rejecting his one and only Son and they never repented for it, which is why Jesus says to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you.”[2]

With this parable, Jesus held up the mirror of the Law to their souls and revealed death and damnation to them. This is about as harsh as Jesus ever gets.

But the thing about Jesus is that even in his sternest condemnation, there is still a glimmer of grace. Did you notice that Jesus didn’t close the door to heaven on the noses of those Jewish leaders? The door was still open to them. There was still time for them to repent.

And think about the love that it takes for Jesus to say these words to them, especially when he does. Jesus told this parable on the Tuesday of Holy Week. These very chief priests were going to arrest Jesus, put him on trial and sentence him to death in three days, but Jesus still took the time on Tuesday to call them to repentance, so that they could still receive the forgiveness that he was going to win for them on Friday.

So, as much as Jesus tells this parable to hold up the mirror of God’s law to our hearts and reveal us as “yes-no,” “no-yes,” or “no-no” sons, there’s really a fourth son that this parable is all about and he’s the one telling it. This parable is all about Jesus, God’s one and only “yes-yes” son.

Jesus is the only one who has ever said, “I will, Lord,” and then done it without fail every time for you. It was his perfect life of obedience from day one that made his death on Good Friday mean something for you. When Jesus’ hung on the cross of these chief priests’ making, he did so as your perfect substitute, taking your place and your punishment for your sin. For the times that you strayed away from God, he remained faithful to you from first to last. For the times that you said the right things but failed to follow through, Jesus loved you to the point of death, giving his life so that you could live forgiven and free from your sin.

Jesus is the perfect “yes-yes” son for you. And he tells this parable to you so that you don’t make the same mistake that these chief priests did, i.e. so that you can hear the grace of God and respond with repentance, so that whether it’s on a Sunday morning at the start of a worship service or on a Tuesday afternoon after you’ve just caught yourself in a lie, you can hit your knees and confess your sin and know that God has forgiven you in Jesus. Jesus tells you this parable so that you can know that no matter how many bad things you’ve done – or how bad they were – there is grace for the greedy and the gross, like tax collectors and prostitutes, which means there’s grace for you too.

Just don’t be like those “no-no” chief priests. Don’t be complacent in your sin. Don’t hide behind the appearance of self-righteousness. Don’t imagine that you are better than anyone else. Don’t pretend that you don’t need God’s grace. Believe me, believer, you do! And you don’t want to wait for the Last Day to find out.

But that’s the good news. God gives you his grace in Jesus. So, whether you struggle with self-control or self-righteousness, whether your sin is insincerity or indifference, when you repent and believe in Jesus as your substitute and Savior, you receive his grace and forgiveness forever.

That’s the beauty of this passage – and the reliability of Scripture – regardless of which version you read, regardless of how you answer Jesus’ question, his answer to your sin is always the same – full and free forgiveness to everyone who believes in his name, including you. So repent and believe – be real, with yourself and with your God – and you will enter the kingdom of God with those tax collectors and prostitutes… and pastors and mechanics and teachers and car salesmen and refugees and retirees because of Jesus, God’s one and only “yes-yes” Son for you. Amen.


[1] Matthew 21:31

[2] Matthew 21:31

You're Invited!

Matthew 22:1-14

Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying: “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. 3 He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come.

“Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’

“But they paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants, mistreated them and killed them. The king was enraged. He sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city.

“Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ 10 So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.

11 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. 12 He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless.

13 “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

14 “For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

You’re Invited!

What kind of tickets would I have to have in my hands for you to drop everything and change your plans and attend this event? How about the Heritage Classic coming up on October 29 – Calgary v. Edmonton outside at Commonwealth Stadium? Sign me up. I don’t care what’s going on that day. You got tickets? I’ll be there.

How about Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band, Monday, November 6 at Rogers Place. Do you want to go? Or if Bruce isn’t your beat, how about KISS’s End of the Road World Tour; same place, just a few days later?

There are certain moments and events that become available in a person’s life that you’d have to be crazy to miss.

What if I told you that you were invited to a wedding? Where would that rank on your list of social calendar priorities? If it helps, it’s not just any wedding. It’s even better than a family wedding. It’s a royal wedding. The King himself wanted to invite you personally! Would you go? You’d be crazy not to!

Imagine the food. I mean, I loved my wedding, but we just offered the option between chicken or pork. The King is going to serve nothing less than Grade-A Alberta beef, if not better. You might get lucky and get Wagyu beef. Or if that’s not your thing, you know that the King isn’t going to limit his options to one. Seafood buffet. Sushi bar. Desserts of every kind and variety. Appetizers that’ll make your taste buds sing. Drinks that’ll make your head spin. Who could say no to that? You’d have to be crazy.

But that’s exactly what the Jews did to Jesus. And that’s why Jesus told the parable that we heard a moment ago from Matthew 22.

It was a parable, so it wasn’t exactly direct – it was a story filled with symbolism – but as parables go, it was about as transparent as a parable gets. The king who was throwing a wedding banquet for his son is God the Father. The son whom he is celebrating is the Son of God, i.e. Jesus himself. The invited guests are the Pharisees, to whom Jesus is telling this parable – and really, the whole nation of Israel. And the servants whom the king sends to extend his invitation to the wedding banquet are the prophets, i.e. the proclaimers of God’s Holy Word.

Already by the time that Jesus was telling this parable, God had sent countless prophets to his people – prophets like Moses and Isaiah, Elijah and Elisha, even prophets as recent as John the Baptist who was Jesus’ contemporary. The prophets were there to prepare the people to enter heaven, to encourage them to be true to God, to call them out on their sin and to call them to repentance trusting in God’s forgiveness.

It was a gracious thing that God. It demonstrated his love and commitment to a people who, frankly, didn’t reciprocate it. You think of Moses; the Israelites were constantly grumbling and complaining. And when Moses turned his back for 2 seconds, he turned around to find them worshiping a golden calf. You look at Elijah; he had epic showdowns with false prophets and definitively showed that there is only one true God, but the people didn’t care; they kept worshiping Baal instead. John the Baptist was sent to prepare the way for Jesus, and what did he earn for his faithfulness? Beheading and martyrdom.  

To people who were lukewarm in their love for God, to people who murdered his prophets, God continued to send more and more servants extending the same gracious invitation to join him in an eternal celebration in heaven, but incredibly they refused to accept. They paid no attention. They went off and occupied themselves with other business, and almost without fail, they persecuted the very prophets God sent to show them his love. They even refused to accept God’s own Son, whom he had promised to send to save them from their sin, but instead of celebrating him, they crucified him.

It's not a stretch for us to understand the king when he approached his servants in v.8 of Jesus’ parable:

“The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come.”[1]

How could they not see? How could they be so disrespectful? How could they be so crazy to reject God’s gracious invitation so many times in a row?

It’s not a stretch for us to understand how they were unworthy of being welcome to the wedding. What’s harder for us to understand is what happens next. The king, in his graciousness and in his desire to have a full wedding feast to celebrate his son, isn’t deterred by rejection. He tells his servants to go find more people to invite – anyone they could find. That’s beautiful. And the response is beautiful too. The wedding hall was filled with guests.[2] The servants finally found people who understood how special this invitation was and how crazy they’d have to be to turn it down.

But what’s strange is to hear this bit about the man who was not wearing wedding clothes and, as a result, was bound hand and foot and thrown outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.[3]

Christian, that’s a warning a to you. That’s a warning that you don’t get too judgmental about those ancient Jews – who were crazy to reject Jesus – that you neglect to see the danger lurking in your heart.

What was the problem with those first invited guests? It wasn’t the invitation. The king had done everything. He prepared a feast. He killed his oxen and fattened cattle. He signed and labeled the envelopes and didn’t entrust them to Canada Post but put them in the hands of his own servants, not once but twice to make sure that those invitees had every opportunity to come. The problem was that they didn’t want to. The problem was that they valued other things more – the silliest of things, e.g. their businesses and occupations. The problem was their hearts.

That was the problem with the man without wedding clothes too. He didn’t care about the king or his son. He wasn’t concerned with showing respect or honour. He got an invitation to a nice meal and he came on his own terms. He abused the gracious invitation of his king and suffered the consequences for it.

Do you? Abuse God’s gracious invitation? How many times have his servants come to you inviting you to his house and you’ve been unwilling and apathetic? “Meh, I’ve got better things to do.” How many times have you convinced yourself that those “better things” include silly things like sleep or work or playing sports or watching sports? How many times have you walked in these doors or engaged in devotions or Bible studies wanting it to be on your terms instead of God’s? How many times have you folded your hands in prayer saying “My will be done,” instead of, “Thy will be done”?

Like this man without the wedding clothes, have you ever told yourself or someone else, “I’m sure God understands.” “I’m sure he knows how busy I am, how tired I am.” “I’m sure he knows that I’m sincere, even if I don’t really want to change anything about my faith or life.”

If we’re honest with ourselves I think we’d have to admit that the king’s assessment of those first invited guests applies to us too: “The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come.”[4] But do you know what’s amazing? You may not be worthy, but he invited you anyway and continues to invite you day after day as long as you live.

Did you catch that in the parable? The king says to his servants,

“So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.” So the servant went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good.[5]

God does not limit his invitation to the “good.” He invited you too. He wants you to be part of the celebration of his Son. And even more than that, he clothes you in robes of righteousness that you could have never pulled out of your own closet. As one of those prophets whom the Israelites ignored and rejected once said:

I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.[6]

God wants you to be dressed appropriately for the feast, but he doesn’t expect you to furnish the clothes yourself. He provides them for you in a visible, tangible way that you can rely on:

All of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.[7]

In Baptism God not only washes all your sins away, he clothes you with Christ. We sang it a moment ago:

Jesus, your blood and righteousness
my beauty are, my glorious dress;
mid flaming worlds, in these arrayed,
with joy shall I lift up my head.

It was the blood of Jesus that those first invited guests shed on the cross that now covers over all your sin and makes you worthy in God’s eyes.

None of us deserves that invitation. None of us deserves to be here. None of us deserves to receive the body and blood that Jesus poured out for you and me, and yet, in his infinite grace and persistent mercy he nevertheless extends that invitation to you today and every day: Come. Celebrate my Son, your Saviour, Jesus. Come, I have heaven prepared for you with joys unending and happiness unimaginable. Come, not as you are, but as I’ve made you – clothed in the robes of Christ’s righteousness, with hearts filled with love for him.

You’re invited. Accept that invitation with joy and eagerness. Mark that event on your calendar as the top priority – greater than the grades you get in school, the performance review you get at work, the amazing places you get to visit on God’s green earth. Heaven is better than all of them put together and God has given you free tickets through his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. In him and through faith in him you may accept his invitation with joy. Amen.


[1] Matthew 22:8

[2] Matthew 22:10

[3] Matthew 22:13

[4] Matthew 22:8

[5] Matthew 22:9,10

[6] Isaiah 61:10

[7] Galatians 3:27